What You Need To Know About Heart Breaks
What does the word “Heart Break” mean? If you’d ask the myriads of Youths, Lovers, Teenagers, boys and girls roaming the streets, various answers would be given, some might even say it’s a transaction, but take a little child by the road side for example, a child of ten or eleven years old watching his father walking out on him/her and their mother, maybe a soldier, or a cheating husband, or a divorced parent, only to end up being killed at war, or creating a broken home, however you describe this events, one thing is sure, Heart Break. The distractive pain of quakes in the heart, and the continuous regret, however long they last, or as much as it needs to last, a time to be fulfilled. The sad truth is there is nothing any humans can do to flip the switch and stop the painful emotions as every bit of emotions and passion would be felt and expressed in its little bit right down to the point where every hate and pain, and hurt is exhausted, just then a brief moment of relief and then the pain of the reality of what is lost comes rushing back in.
It has been scientifically proven that the heart plays a part in human emotions particularly love and heart break, funny though as it is the brain which translate what is felt, yet the heart feels it and respond to this actions. However not magic of some sort or an organic function of the heart, this feeling is caused by a chemical compound secreted in the heart and upon trigger by the brain the emotions come rushing in and so does the sensational feeling of the heart drawing near in love and the sensational feeling of the heart being squeezed in pain. Both feelings and emotions are felt by the Heart, but our focus is the pain.
Ever wondered why it could take years to get over a loved one, a lover or someone we cared about who was lost either to a tragic accident or to a lover’s quarrel or to the simple term of fate, every factors mentioned are still controlled and guaranteed by one major factor “Personality”. Personality dictates a lot in any relationship. Even with this a large group of individuals would debate that fate is the major factor.
Fate plays a significant part in what should or should not be, as most people or individual believe fate simply dictate what is meant to be and what is not meant to be, sadly, this claim may or may not be true as personality plays a larger part in the success of a relationship. Imagine it this way, an alpha male and alpha female in a relationship with one another would definitely lead to a break up except one alpha is willing to bow, or a country side girl who believes in culture and state traditions and a city adventurer who as lost every bit of culture and lives the life of a party, would lead to a personality clash originating from ideological differences which would doom the relationship, only in rear cases do you see such relationships working out, but then things that deals with love and life are quite complicated with no instructional Manuel to guide our steps and rules to play by varies from individual experience, therefore mistakes are guaranteed and so is love, lust, heartbreak and hurt.
In a way the expectation of hurt governs the relationship, serving as a prelude to paranoia and fear. Loving with the whole heart is guaranteed to lead to heartbreak at one point or the other, sadly a heart in Love would stick around till all hope is lost and then break up, either way Heart Break. According to statistics measuring the percentage of the world population who has been hurt by trusting or believing in the wrong notion, a 95% rate and the pain from Love is guaranteed 100% bring up the question, “How to avoid being Heart Broken?”.
Running from Heart Broken
The simple trick would be not to Love again and live free from the commitments and expectations, fortunately this is not so, maybe for a couple of years to abstain from romantic relationships, however there is friendship and family, those things are riddled with Love and where there is Love there is expectation, and there is commitment. Ultimately, Love and Heart Break are two part of Human Interaction on earth and having to live without them is like having to live without breathing. These things make and break a man; it all depends on the way it is handled. For one a certain level of maturity and determination is required, confidence and self reliance are also admirable traits.
Distractions could seem like viable source for quick recovery, being engrossed in work or a certain duty, this only prolong the time it would take to heal, and when the distraction and façade are gone, then the pain returns, a complex human system which cannot be cheated or tricked.
In the end the question of Heart Break and Love would forever be a pressing issue and how it is dealt with would be reflected based on the level of maturity, commitment, and personality of individual parties.
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